I just returned from a long walk and a good cry. You’ll think I’m foolish when I tell you why. I joined eharmony.com two months ago, i admit  somewhat sheepishly. Does it make me seem needy, I feared, when I know full well that I am. Lonely, too. Anyway, a good-looking man contacted me almost [...]

After Marsh died, I agonized for two years over my living arrangement. Should I keep my home and guest house in Mexico, even though I didn’t much like living there alone? Should I sell and look for something smaller and easier to maintain? Should I spend more time in California and the “Grammy flat” we [...]